Understanding Sri Lankan Culture: Dos and Don’ts for Travellers - Travel smart in the Pearl of the Indian Ocean!

Sri Lanka is a top destination for travellers who want to experience a unique tropical vacation. With its rich culture, historical sites and natural beauty, the island has so much to offer. If you plan on exploring Sri Lanka, understanding the local customs will certainly make your trip more interesting. Here is a guide to help you navigate the dos and don'ts of Sri Lankan culture

Do dress modestly

Sri Lanka is a conservative country, and more so if you travel to rural areas and religious sites. If you’re staying at a hotel or Pasikuda Beach Resorts, it’s acceptable to dress as you normally would. However, when you venture out to visit temples or churches, it is advised to always cover your shoulders and knees. Avoid dressing in sleeveless tops and shorts when you go to these locations. If you’re not dressed appropriately, you could cover yourself with a shawl or scarf. Also, remember to remove shoes and hats when entering religious places. 

Do greet with a smile

Since Sri Lankans are known for their warmth and hospitality, one of the best ways to connect with the natives is with a smile. The traditional Sri Lankan greeting is a slight bow with hands pressed together. You could also use the traditional greeting, “Ayubowan”, which means “may you live long.” It’s a great way to show respect for the local customs, and the natives will appreciate it.

 Do learn some Sinhala or Tamil phrases

Although English is spoken widely in Sri Lanka, if you want to know the culture and people better, learn some basic phrases in the native languages. Sinhalese is spoken by the majority, especially in the southern and western regions, while Tamil is the dominant language in the North and east. You could pick up simple phrases such as “Istuti” (thank you in Sinhala) or “Vanakkam” (hello in Tamil) to connect better with the locals.

 Do be mindful of local customs

As mentioned, Sri Lanka is a fairly conservative and traditional country. Due to this, it is best to steer clear of public displays of affection. While holding hands may be acceptable, avoid kissing and hugging in public, as this could make the locals feel uncomfortable. It is also seen as polite to remove your footwear before entering someone’s home unless asked to do otherwise. 

Do use your right hand

While this doesn’t apply if you’re dining in a hotel such as Amethyst Resort or a restaurant, it is best to use your right hand when eating. This is especially true if you’re invited for a meal at a local’s home. Keep this in mind when passing objects or handling money as well. The left hand is usually reserved for personal hygiene and is considered unclean. While it is not frowned upon to use your left hand, it may raise a few eyebrows. 

Don’t criticise religion or politics

Since religion and politics tend to be sensitive topics in Sri Lanka, it’s best to refrain from discussing them. Avoid criticising these subjects or raising questions relating to them. These could often lead to awkward situations. Try to show respect for different beliefs and don’t engage in heated debates. 

Don’t touch people’s heads

In Sri Lanka, the head is considered a sacred part of the body. As a result, touching someone’s head, even with playful intent, may be seen as disrespectful. This also includes patting children on the head. You should also avoid pointing your feet at people or objects considered sacred. 

Don’t litter or disrespect nature

Sri Lanka is full of beautiful landscapes, with terrain ranging from scenic beaches to dense jungles. When visiting these locations, don’t harm the environment by littering. Dispose of your waste properly, and stay away from using single-use plastics. Also be cautious when visiting wildlife attractions - don’t disturb the animals or be noisy. Avoid feeding animals and supporting unethical practices like elephant riding.

Don’t haggle aggressively

While it’s common to bargain and haggle in local markets or with tuk-tuk drivers, do so in a respectful way. Always be friendly and polite and remember that even a small amount for you might mean a lot to the seller. If you are unsuccessful, do not lose your temper - just walk away. 

Don’t underestimate Sri Lankan spice

While Sri Lankan cuisine is delicious, it is also known to be quite spicy, especially for foreigners! If you’re averse to having too much spice in your food, you could politely make a request when you go to a restaurant or local home. However, don’t turn your nose up at the food if it’s too hot, as locals take great pride in their cooking!